When Should You Shut Your Mouth?

After just reading the latest blog post on my friend Leah's blog (Love Ling) about how people just suck sometimes, I was inspired. Here is a link to her post if you are curious- Truth: Sometimes, People Suck - Love Ling. In this post she mentioned that, when in a social setting, everyone is just trying to fit in. I can totally relate to that. I know that it may sound extremely shallow, but deep down everyone wants to fit in somewhere. Generally, in order to fit in you have to make good conversation and make some new friends. That's where this post is going to come in. I don't know about you guys, but I have a bad habit of rambling on when I'm talking to others. This can not only leave you tongue-tied and embarrassed, but generally it gets on peoples' nerves.
    So when is the right time to shut your mouth? Well, before you share what's on your mind think about how it fits with the conversation. Does it have anything to do with anything? Are people going to understand what you are saying? Unless you can answer those questions, it's best to just not say anything at all. People appreciate a good listener too! So just sit back and enjoy the conversation. Stay alert and interested, but don't get in peoples' faces. Everyone needs their own personal space.
    So if you want to stop rambling stick to this motto: When in doubt, leave it out! And remember, this doesn't mean that you shouldn't share your opinions. You definitely can, but make sure that you don't ramble on about a subject for too long! Lastly, you are all wonderful and I'm sure making new friends will be a breeze. Until next time.

-Yours Truly

Being Shy

Everyone gets nervous around new people. It's like a universal thing, but how do you overcome that? It's so scary to put yourself out there and make new friends sometimes, but you can definitely do it. Personally, I'm not very shy, but everyone has their moments. So how do you overcome shyness? Well, it's really simple actually.
    First you have to be confident in yourself. Once you realize how amazing you are, it will be easier to show others. Walking up to someone new and striking up a conversation would be totally okay. Also, don't get embarrassed. I know that is a major goal and it can take a long time to master. Just remember that everyone is human, and they probably make mistakes all the time just like you. So, when choosing someone to make friends with be sure to choose someone who has something in common with you. If you don't have anything in common you won't have anything to start a conversation with. It's also a good idea to try to find someone with the same goals and morals as you, but you have to get to know them before you know that.
    All in all, just be pleasant. If you are even half as fantastic as I think you are, then there is no way they won't love you! Just remember: CONFIDENCE IS KEY!! Well, I hope this was helpful, until next time...

-Yours Truly

Mind Games

Hello everyone! Today I want to talk about something that literally every girl is accused of. Mind games. I wish that guys would get it through their heads that not all girls are the same! Sure, some girls are a lot of drama and won't just come out and tell you their feelings. I get that, we have to deal with other girls too. But, they need to realize that everything we say doesn't mean we are playing mind games with them. Sometimes if I say, "Pass the Ketchup," there is no second meaning.
    So this is going to be kind of a rant post, but I also think that a lot of girls do play mind games, and that's not cool. If you are upset with them, just tell them you are upset. This will take them by surprise and they will probably be thankful that they don't have to guess what you are thinking anymore. I understand that no one is perfect, I'm guilty of hiding my feelings too, but all girls should try to be more straight forward with everyone.
    Well, that is my rant for today, I hope you enjoyed it!

-Yours Truly

My Music Favorites!

Alright, so recently I have been loving light  music. So when I found some of these artists I was completely in love. So here are a few of my current favorite that I think you should definitely check out! Oh and I also want to apologize for taking such a long break from posting. I feel terrible, but I'm back now! So let's get to it:

Jack Johnson
This is the guy that sings the music in the Curious George movie. That's right. His smooth voice and adorable songs are fantastic and I can't get enough of them. Banana Pancakes and Better together are two of my favorites. I'll leave links for them right here:Banana Pancakes -Jack Johnson Better Together -Jack Johnson

Jason Castro
So I don't know many songs by him, but his cover of Hallelujah is incredible. I'm not sure what it is about his voice, but it is so unique and I love it! Also, he has gorgeous eyes. You might remember him from forever ago on American Idol, but that nothing compared to his music after the show. Hallelujah - Jason Castro

Birdy
I just recently found her on YouTube and I love the different quality of her voice. She does amazing covers and she is so young and fresh! Her cover of Skinny Love is great and she just brings a smile to your face. Anyways, you should go look her up! Skinny Love - Birdy

Well, that's all for now. All of these artists are available on iTunes and I encourage all of you to go buy their songs! Until next time...

- Yours Truly

Stress

   Hey guys! So, I know that you all know what stress is and what causes it. I mean, who doesn't get stressed from time to time? But lately, I have been under a good bit of stress myself. With the end of the school year being just around the corner everything is starting to get really busy. My workload has increased, I had to choose classes for next year, there are forms to turn in, sports are coming to an end, auditions for extra curricular activities are happening. To put it simply: There is a lot going on. So what can you do to relieve some stress? Here are some tips:

1. Stay Positive:
    Don't let little things freak you out. If you believe you can do it then you will get it done. Also, don't procrastinate or begin to doubt yourself, this leads to stress.

2. Take Some Time For Yourself:
    If you spend all day everyday running around staying insanely busy it's going to take a toll on you. Take a Saturday to sit around, do your nails, watch Gossip Girl, or do whatever makes you happy!

3. Get a Planner:
    I know that this might sound like a super nerdy thing to do, but a daily/monthly planner can really help you set your schedule and avoid time crunch issues.

4. Learn to Say No:
    We all feel bad telling a friend or family member no, but if you help everyone with everything they ask you are going to overextend yourself! Just make sure you don't cram too many things in your schedule.

Well, I hope this has helped you and maybe you can use this to help control your stress. Just remember not to try to do too much. Sometimes you just need some time to sit down and do absolutely nothing. And that's perfectly okay!

P.S. I apologize for how long it's been since I've posted! Hopefully I will have more time in the near future!

-Yours Truly

Secrets

   

We all have them and we spend a lot of time and effort making sure that they don't get spread. Secrets are the one thing strong enough to ruin any friendship and start a fight between almost anyone. Recently I've come to the conclusion that you just shouldn't let it get to you. Even if so and so tells everyone about that guy from geometry you like, or if someone spills that you totally took a tumble in front of pretty much the most important people to you. Keep it together people! Don't let them get to you, just talk it out and voice how you don't appreciate them spreading stuff around that is private. Luckily I have some amazing friends who wouldn't do that kind of thing to me, but for all of you out there who aren't that lucky, don't let people walk all over you!
    I guess what I'm trying to say here is you need to stick up for yourself and your privacy. Never be embarrassed of anything you do because that just makes you feel inferior and bad about your self. Be bold. Do what you want and don't care what everyone thinks of you. You are amazing. I guarantee it. Well, until next time...

-Yours Truly

My Crazy Week!

    Hey guys! I know I haven't posted in forever and I  apologize. I figured that you guys might want an explanation so here are some things that have been going on lately:

HOMEWORK! oh my gosh, I have had boatloads of it lately! I don't know about you but all of this homework better help me out down the road. Anyways, last week I went on the annual band trip to Orlando! It was amazing!! The sun and warm weather definitely put me in a better mood, and missing a little bit of school didn't hurt either. I got to spend some quality time with friends, major memories made there. Anyways after that I was busy helping out around school with all of my extra curricular activities. It is sooo important that you are involved in your school and that you are showing interest in something other than academics (Colleges love that). So I also went and saw Divergent... It literally blew my mind. I loved the movie and the plot is so interesting. Not to be cheesy, but it kind of changed my way of thinking a little bit. So after Divergent I had more homework and then threw a little party. It was super cute even if our plans didn't go like I wanted them to. It's good to know that I have friends who are willing to spend time with me doing absolutely anything. One of those friends was Leah, the one from the beauty blog! Go check out her blog at www.lovelingblog.blogspot.com ! Anyways, that's a brief recap of what I have been up to!

Well, I hope you enjoyed this random post about me. More to come!

- Yours Truly